Playing with the Boys

I am the only woman in my foursome and being so motivates me to play better.  However, there would be times when I get really frustrated because it will never be physically possible to outdrive any of the boys.  This frustration creeps in especially during Par 4s.  I hate Par 4s because it is so difficult to hit the green in regulation.  I am almost always several yards shy from the green after two strokes even when I hit good shots.  Like the boys, I would love to be able to just drive and chip to get to the green and get an opportunity for birdie.  Someday...